
For many families in Glastonbury and throughout central Connecticut, a home is more than just a piece of real estate; it is a repository of memories, a symbol of stability, and often the most significant asset in a family’s financial portfolio. When you think about your legacy, you likely envision your property providing security for your children or even your grandchildren. However, ensuring that a home stays within the family across generations is not a matter of luck, it is a matter of law.
How you “title” your property, meaning the legal format in which ownership is held, dictates exactly what happens to that home when you pass away. Without a strategic approach, your family could face unnecessary taxes, lengthy probate court proceedings, or even internal disputes that threaten the very legacy you worked so hard to build.
At Kane, Hartley & Kane, PC, we have spent over 40 years helping families navigate the complexities of Real Estate and Estate Planning. We understand that the “right” way to own a home depends entirely on your family’s unique goals and dynamics.
What Does “Titling” Actually Mean?
Titling refers to the way your name appears on the deed of your property. In Connecticut, the language used on that deed carries immense weight. It determines who has the right to sell the property, who is responsible for its debts, and most importantly, how ownership transfers upon death.
When we sit down with clients to discuss multi-generational planning, we explore several common titling structures. Each comes with its own set of advantages and potential risks.
1. Joint Tenancy with Right of Survivorship
This is perhaps the most common way for married couples to own a home. Under this structure, two or more people own the property equally.
- The Pros: The primary advantage is the avoidance of probate at the first death. If one owner passes away, their share automatically transfers to the surviving owner(s) by operation of law. It is a relatively simple and inexpensive way to ensure a surviving spouse maintains full control of the home.
- The Cons: On the downside, adding an adult child as a joint tenant can be risky. If that child faces a lawsuit, a divorce, or bankruptcy, their creditors may be able to place a lien on your home. Furthermore, you cannot sell or refinance the property without the consent of all joint owners.
- The Risk: You may inadvertently trigger a gift tax if you add a child to the deed, and you might lose the full “step-up in basis” for capital gains tax purposes, which could cost your heirs significantly when they eventually sell the home.

2. Tenants in Common
Unlike joint tenancy, “Tenants in Common” allows owners to hold different percentages of the property (e.g., one person owns 60% and another owns 40%).
- The Pros: This offers maximum flexibility for business partners or blended families. You have the right to leave your specific share of the property to whoever you choose in your will.
- The Cons: This structure does not avoid probate. When an owner dies, their share must pass through the probate court process to reach the intended heirs.
- The Risk: If your goal is a “low-stress” transition for your family, this is rarely the preferred path, as it can lead to multiple people owning small “fractions” of a house, which often leads to disagreements over whether to sell or keep the property.
3. Life Estate Deeds
A Life Estate splits ownership into two “time periods.” You (the life tenant) keep the right to live in and use the property for the rest of your life. Upon your death, the property automatically transfers to the “remainder” owners (usually your children).
- The Pros: It effectively avoids probate for the real estate. It also provides a sense of security for the parents, knowing they cannot be “kicked out” of their own home.
- The Cons: Once a Life Estate deed is recorded, it is very difficult to undo. You generally cannot sell or mortgage the home without the written permission of the remainder owners.
- The Risk: If your relationship with your children changes, or if one of the remainder owners experiences financial trouble, your ability to manage your own home could be compromised.

4. The Revocable Living Trust: The “Gold Standard”
For families looking to protect a multi-generational legacy, placing the home into a Revocable Living Trust is often the most robust solution.
In this scenario, the Trust owns the property, and you serve as the Trustee, maintaining 100% control during your lifetime.
Why We Often Recommend Trusts:
- Avoidance of Probate: Just like joint tenancy, property in a trust bypasses the court system, saving your family time and money.
- Privacy: Unlike a probated will, which becomes a public record, a trust remains private.
- Incapacity Protection: If you become unable to manage your affairs, your “Successor Trustee” can step in and manage the property (pay taxes, handle repairs) without needing a court-ordered conservatorship.
- Complex Legacy Planning: You can write specific rules into the trust. For example, you can stipulate that a child can live in the home for their lifetime, but the home must then pass to your grandchildren, ensuring the property stays in the family for three generations or more.
- The Downside: There is more upfront work and cost involved in creating a trust and “funding” it (transferring the deed into the trust’s name). However, many find this a small price to pay for the long-term peace of mind and protection it provides.
Connecticut Considerations: Why Local Expertise Matters
Connecticut law has specific nuances regarding real estate and probate administration. For instance, the Connecticut Probate Court oversees the distribution of assets that are not properly titled. Even if you have a will, if your home is titled in your name alone, it must go through probate before your heirs can take ownership.
Furthermore, we must consider the “Clean Commitment” in title insurance and how future transfers might be affected by current titling choices. We emphasize a “multi-generational approach” because the decisions you make today will affect your family’s financial health decades from now.

Building Your Legacy with Kane, Hartley & Kane, PC
Protecting your home isn’t just about the law; it’s about personal care. We pride ourselves on being a high-touch firm that prioritizes clear communication over high-volume profit. Whether you are a first-time homebuyer or looking to transition your family estate to the next generation, we are here to provide the legal oversight you need.
Our team, including Thomas P. Kane and Tanya Schulz, brings decades of experience to the table to ensure your real estate transactions are handled with precision and care.

Take the Next Step
If you are unsure how your home is currently titled, or if you want to explore how a Trust could protect your family’s future, we invite you to reach out to us. Don’t leave your legacy to chance, ensure your property is protected by a plan as solid as the home itself.
Contact us today to schedule a consultation at our Glastonbury office.
Visit our Contact Page or call us directly to start the conversation.
Legal Disclaimer: The information provided in this blog post is for general educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Every family situation is unique, and laws vary by jurisdiction. To obtain legal advice tailored to your specific circumstances, please consult with a qualified attorney. Use of this website or contact with our firm does not establish an attorney-client relationship.

